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A Socialization Checklist - Puppies before 16 weeks
  • jujeejujee
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    Post edited by sunyata at 2013-09-10 13:53:14
  • JessicaRabbitJessicaRabbit
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    That is a fantastic check list. I am going to make this a sticky because I think this is so important for new dog owners.
  • JessicaRabbitJessicaRabbit
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    Clearly I was never socialized with mimes or clowns because those bastards creep me out.
  • SangmortSangmort
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    lmao @ Jess

    Funilly enough, I have an Aunt who is also afraid of clowns. [ & birds, & snakes, & lizards: IE, all of my babies ] & when she found out we got a pup, she rushed over to "socialize" herself to him as...she's scared of pups too!

    So on that note...socialize your family / friends to the pup too while he's still young. :) ~
  • I dislike clowns, and I hate the Snuggles Bear.

    This is a really great sticky btw.
  • Serkle kSerkle k
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    I'm a clown. Well I used to have my own entertainment company. We were called clowning around entertainment. :-P
  • It's funny how many people are afraid of clowns. I think many parents took their kids to the circus and the clowns would play around with them at a young age. When you look at clowns with wild,colored, curly hair,a big red mouth, crazy clothes (plus they don't talk) it is scary.
    The list is great and MoJo was quite socialized by 16 weeks....socialized with the important things...people, children, other animals (not small hamsters and birds) and loud sounds (he was always calm) Car rides were great from the very start...and never car sick. Overall he's a well rounded little guy thankfully. Not scared of anything...not even clowns
  • Wow!

    I guess I am lucky! Moshi is only phased by bicycles and prams (perambulators to you lot...) out of the above. He likes the vet but was freaked out big-time when I took him for the snip (he must have sensed my guilt/worry...) He was socialised early and has never shown aggression to any human or animal, though he bites the ones he loves - strangers are OK.

    One quirk: the park I take him to at work is usually empty, but when the council are cleaning it with their sweeping vehicles that makes him lose it... big-time!!! "Why are they here? It doesn't make sense!!!)
  • sandrat888sandrat888
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  • AnnaAnna
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    Hammond loves toddlers and kids. A little too much because he gets really wound up and wants to chase them, haha. But if I tell him to sit and let the kids give him a treat for sitting or shaking, then he tends to be more calm. I think it's just because he's still young and energetic and kids move in such quick, erratic ways that it triggers OMG PLAYTIME in him.

    Thankfully he's a very confident, social pup, so he loves ever person, animal, place, and thing he meets. Only once or twice has a noise startled him (rolling the garbage bin away from the curb, etc.)\

    I was worried about skateboards because there's a skate shop right around the corner and kids are always skating and doing tricks on the sidewalk, but he just ignored them. Once a kid fell off his board and Hammond went over and sniffed it but found it unexciting, haha.
  • Umi is very well socialized - loves people of all sizes and also dogs. I had read that socialization was important, so as soon as we got her at 8 weeks we began exposing her to as many new experiences as possible - new places, people, dogs(after her shots). I think most importantly we just did it as part of our routine and didn't make a big deal of it - we were comfortable, relaxed and the dog got to experience new things under no stress, and it seemed to work. She has two things that she hates - her arch nemeses are - The Vacuum Cleaner ( if we even move to the part of the house the VC lives in, she bolts outside) and The Rubbish Bin (which is on wheels and makes a rumbling noise as it moves). Apart from that, the world is Umi's party!
  • EthosEthos
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    My puppy will be 9.5 weeks when I get him. I asked the breeder to socialize him as much as possible, she exposed him to family members,her kids, and a cat. I know that's not enough, is it too late at 9.5 weeks for me to socialize the puppy and desensitize him if he has aggression to strangers ? Did any of you adopt a puppy older than 9 weeks and could socialize him/her successfully?
  • KitsuKitsu
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    @Ethos 9.5 weeks is not even close to being late to socialize him! Some people don't really start socializing a ton until the puppy has all the puppy shots and just leave their puppy at home until then. (Although sooner the better for socialization, just avoid places like dog parks and floors of pet stores and stuff like that until they have their shots done.) !
    Post edited by Kitsu at 2012-04-06 10:41:33
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  • KitsuKitsu
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    This list has soooo many things on it. There's no way I'll be able to get even close to even half of it! Maybe if I lived in a bigger town :(
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  • EthosEthos
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    Ya 1 brother and 3 sisters. I read in a book that the puppy needs to be exposed to 100 different people by the age of 7 weeks. I dont thonk he was exposed to more than 10.
  • sandrat888sandrat888
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  • That's a great list! Good thing to keep in mind for the future ;).

    And ugh...I hate clowns too. But because of two movies I saw when I was young: Stephen King's It and Potergeist. I love both of those movies but... *shudders*. Oh, and the Chuckie movie didn't help either when my father let me see it when I was really little, so I hate creepy dolls too XD
  • SayaSaya
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  • RAM25RAM25
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  • Chloe is 15 weeks old (almost 4 months) and I just got her 2 days ago.... we had a big family party last night which included 2 little kids and about 12 family members... the get togethers are normally loud and a lot of things going on. She did really well though. The kids were all over her (their first time seeing her) and she never once showed any sort of aggression or any growling or anything. I have been getting her used to these types of things by tugging her ears and tail on occasion, and putting my hands in her food bowl while she's eating, and then also feeding her by hand. I haven't had an issue yet so I'm hoping it will turn out just like my poodle did with this training.
  • Kobe1468Kobe1468
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  • Kira_KiraKira_Kira
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  • Wow...lots of things! Mika will be meeting her two lab cousins at Christmas, so hopefully this will start her socialization process! Then I better find someone with a punk hairdo next! Lol...that one just cracked me up! Thx for posting that.
  • This really makes me think of the sad dog diary. :P Wonderful checklist though!
  • NahatalieNahatalie
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    The one that cracked me up the most was

    14 week old Oki's had a lot of experiences in the 5 weeks we've had him. He's been absolutely fine with anything we've put him through so far...fingers crossed he continues to take everything in his stride!
  • OMG. Thanks Kira! I've printed it out, and will get down to working on it!
  • FrillfaceFrillface
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    I got Denso at around 4 months old. He is now about 5 months old.
    He is scared of a lot of things, such as cars, people, places, etc.
    It took him a while to feel comfortable in our yard, although he will still scare if someone is outside and so on. I still have to carry him during walks a lot too.
    I am now working on the car though. He is doing good with the engine off so far!

    My question is: Once he is used to car rides, should I just carry him everywhere to socialize him? Or do I need to do something different since he is afraid?

    Edit: still reading research on this, but I just want to make sure I don't scare him more!

    Second edit: Further reading in a certain article is telling me no. Maybe I will just save up after all and hire a trainer to help :)
    Post edited by Frillface at 2015-05-23 17:53:07
  • My opinion, and I am definitely not an expert.

    Denso is as open to new experiences right now as he ever will be. While I wouldn't put him in and keep him in situations that are clearly traumatizing him, I would lean more towards the taking him as many places as you can.

    Rose hasn't shown any of those tendencies but for example, today she went to the dog park and played with everything from a great dane to a chihuahua. She wandered around hollywood feed with me and said hi to every dog and person in there. Later today we went to an air show and heard the loud engines and about 1000 people who want to pet her, or say "look at that fox" etc.

    I think doing those things are key for her future and plan on continuing that. If the dog develops problems with any specific thing I would lean towards using the bond you are developing and your training/positive reinforcement to overcome those issues. Something as simple as having your dog "Focus" on you, or sit, or both, and rewarding with a high value treat goes a long way in calming him down, and if done enough, he will start to associate the previously bad stimulus with a good thing (Treat).
    Post edited by carterpelham at 2015-05-23 21:56:31
  • FrillfaceFrillface
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    I planned on taking him to lower public areas at first, like a not so busy dog park and park in general. Maybe sit far away at first, then build up to getting closer. Our outdoor malls are doggie friendly too, so that may work too for him.
    I just wanted to make sure it was the proper route to go, thank you! :)
    I've also been working on his "focus" command too, so that will help! ;)
    Post edited by Frillface at 2015-05-24 00:38:30
  • zandramezandrame
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    @Frillface, a less busy mall is a good place to start - lots of different textures and smells to explore. And public hiking trails. But dog parks are bad for socialization, because there's no way to know how the other dogs will behave - poor role models are more common than good ones. Especially for dogs with fear or anxiety issues, a bad experience can set them way back. So avoid "dog" areas for now and focus on socializing with people and different environments.

    If you know people with well behaved dogs, that's different. Training classes which are a controlled environment are also good.
  • FrillfaceFrillface
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    I don't like going when it's busy myself ;) He already loves the trails, so that's good! They usually aren't busy either which works well.

    That is a good point actually. I was more going to use it for play, but that may have to wait for now. He really loves dogs though, but sadly I don't know anyone with a dog.
    Thank you for the tips! I'm glad I had the right idea :)

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